Tag Archives: Family

The Roaming Spawn

So, it appears that my child roams around the country a bit without my knowledge. The child’s mother is supposed to keep me informed of where the boy is sleeping and keeping his nights; however, this point has eluded her (kind of like most of the communication has been elusive). As a result, I’m just finding this stuff out after it has happened.  This is exactly the opposite of what I have been lead to believe by court proceedings and my lawyer.

I don’t necessarily want to be a hard ass about this sort of thing, but really. When you’ve effectively stolen the spawn’s presence in the first place through deceit, it’s very difficult to trust that you are going to do rational things on a regular basis, especially when it means moving the spawn around the country (from one state to another even if it is in transit to vacation or whatever).

Bunny to come when I get home (see what I did there?) ;)

Exhausted, Kind of?

I’m exhausted, kinda, sorta? I’m emotionally tired, I really feel strung out. I’m unceasingly angry with the boy’s mother. I’m really happy she has someone that she likes/loves/can use/whatever. I am not happy with how she has handled this situation with the boy, and how little she seems to care (as I understand it) about what is better for him. Her husband has some really irrational dislike for me, but I believe this is because he has been told some very untrue things. I don’t know that for certain, but that is what is seems to be like. To give you an example of this behavior. This man attempted to give me orders through e-mail (way to go marine), which 1. were not possible to accomplish because it breaks airline rules, and 2. isn’t something he could force me to do in the first place unless he intended to come to my city and physically make me do it; good luck with that! After pointing out how inane this was, and providing proof, neither of the two geniuses said anything else about it and pretended like it never happened. And that ladies and gentlemen is classic behavior.

Anyhow, the boy was in town for his school break (this lasted a month), and he was not himself when he first arrived. Of course, that’s to be expected and toward the end of his stay he was finally acting normally. Of course he cried for two hours before having to go back to the state his mother ran away with him to, but I was able to console him. That’s a heart breaking experience, by the way. Having to send your child somewhere they do not want to go, because someone didn’t have the decency to treat them like they had a choice in the matter. Whatever.

Amanda - China

Orangish hair is hot...yeah...or she makes it hot..whatever.

Back In Business

So, then I got the blog moved, haven’t moved the entirety of my server; however, that’s neither here nor there. I’m pleased to announce that the spawn’s mother is still, in my opinion, a liar. Please note that this is my personal opinion. Were you aware that it’s possible to bully someone who has abducted your child? I wasn’t aware of this. So apparently I’m a bully because I called (a cell phone I paid for by the by) repeatedly the person who abducted my child (to take through trickery or force – in case you’re curious how I came up with the idea of abduction) to another state to live with someone he didn’t know trying to find out where he was and who he was with.

Anyhow, blog is back online. Joy of joys. And now for fun:

Kim In Ae in Black

I'm a fan of you bent over a bit more - but this works too ;)

So My Child Went Missing

I know, I know. It sounds so dramatic, someone swooped down and dragged my child off in the night while I was left dying and bleeding on the floor. No, it’s not quite that horrible. No one was shot or any doors kicked in. Although, it would make more sense than what actually happened, thankfully no one was physically harmed in the process. There is definitely some psychological damage, but nothing a little anger and hatred won’t fix (and bunny, don’t forget bunny).

So, as some of you know, and now all of you know, I have a child. He is 9 years old. He has a mother, whom apparently felt it was okay to quit her job (told to me by her supervisor at her former place of work), move to North Carolina, and live with someone at 39 Buchanan Drive on Cherry Point Marine Airbase. I know, right? Say what?

Well that happened on the 12th of July. I was able to locate the mother via GPS (yay for technology), and then had her served with a summons. I’m excited, aren’t you? That means my son, who shall remain semi-nameless to keep all you cyber stalkers at bay for like 15 seconds ;) will be coming home soon and court action will allow him to stay here so he can go to school as planned. Apparently, I need to think of his welfare more, except I didn’t lie to him and say he was going on vacation and then move in with some man that the child has never met before and not let him communicate with his other parent. Yah, apparently I’m the irresponsible one, right?

This is exactly why we never got along, because apparently actions like the above are obviously completely normal and my view on reality is skewed. Whew!

Bunny

Park Hyun Sun - Korea

I've never actually met a furry, this _could_ be hot. ^_^

Funerals and Jobs

I’ll start with the job and go backward. There is a rumor that they are going to  move one of my shift’s crew members away from our team. This sucks pretty hard, because our team is really solid. We get along well and we cover each other really well. We have rapport and have a lot of fun on our shifts. Not a happy fun time at all. I’m pretty annoyed at that change.

Then the real happy fun time. My younger brother was killed in a car accident a few days ago. His funeral is coming up on this coming Tuesda. I have to attend that and the wake, which is on Monday. That’s pretty awesome. I really am not looking forward to sitting in a funeral home all day, nor the whole graveyard shift that’s going to take place (literally, not figuratively). That’s my updates on my life this week/month. Yay.

Oh, as a side note. I’ve added translation tools for those of you that read this (I know there are a few) that do not speak English natively. I’m pretty confident that whatever language you speak, we’ve got it covered. Enjoy! No bunny this time. I am not up for the search today.